Author Topic: I STILL FUCKING LOVE CATS  (Read 101022 times)

mothman

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Re: I STILL FUCKING LOVE CATS
« Reply #1680 on: September 12, 2021, 03:29:43 PM »
It’s natural that you’re feeling this, it’s still very fresh and raw. We have lost five cats over the years and each took a while to get over and we still miss them sometimes, some more than others (which sounds harsh but it’s more how long we had them and what they each meant to us).HZJ, the prevailing wisdom would be not to replace him straightaway, but then who’s to say what’s right or wrong in any given iteration of this kind of situation?

I feel like I’m very much in denial about what the future holds for Tomsk. The op could go wrong; there could be complications or as yet undiscovered issues with long term consequences. I don’t think stressing myself out now about them will help nor will it protect me for the anguish should anything adverse happen. At the end of the day it’s how my daughter is affected that’s most important.

Plus I may in a moment of distress told her she could have a dog instead. And she will remember I did. FML…

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Re: I STILL FUCKING LOVE CATS
« Reply #1681 on: September 14, 2021, 01:41:06 PM »

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