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Decreasing sex drive.

Started by bgmnts, June 10, 2019, 01:58:55 PM

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bgmnts

Now i'm assuming most people here are over 30 and I assume that one's sex drive decreases naturally with age anyway so this may be a pointless thread. However, I have noticed that over the past year or so my sex drive has decreased noticeably.

I always assumed that due to the restrictions put on me in terms of my sexual life - two or three times a year would be a pretty decent outing for me - that I would forever be boiling over with bad lust but it genuinely seems to be dissipating somewhat. Is it like milking a cow, where if you leave it for a while it stops producing milk? I am quite stumped, I must say. I mean, I still wank and watch porn daily and all that jazz but I havent derived any pleasure from it for years, its hust a habit or an impulse, like a chimp.

Has this happened to anyone else here? Preferably someone in their early or mid 20s?

Lost Oliver

I went through a phase in my twenties when I just wasn't arsed anymore. Before this I was horny quite a bit and probably cumming around three times a week. But for a year it kind of stopped and I was happy with it being once a week. It stayed at this level, between one and two a week until I hit 31.

Since then the increase has been ridiculous and I'd like to know if others around my age have found this. If I don't ejaculate the day before then it's all I can think about. I thought it was some kind of evolutionary thing, with my body needing to pass on it's genes or whatever. Who knows.

Sorry, hijacked the thread a little here.

poo

can;t wait for this to happen because I aint been fully flaccid since 1986 and I need milking several times a day. v. tired.  Mid 40s.

Kelvin

Quote from: bgmnts on June 10, 2019, 01:58:55 PMIs it like milking a cow, where if you leave it for a while it stops producing milk?

Now say it in a lower voice.

QuoteHas this happened to anyone else here? Preferably someone in their early or mid 20s?

Yeah, can some 20 year olds tell us about their sex lives in low voices, please.

You might want to see how you feel if you cut down on the ol' porn and masturbation routine for a bit.

imitationleather

Be careful everyone. I've gone through the OP's history and he's only made five posts, all about sex drives decreasing. I think he may be after dour stories of impotence to wank over.

Buelligan

I just came here to say that immi.  Extremely worrying development.

BlodwynPig

I so much as touch 'it' and it chafes and becomes red raw.

Dex Sawash


Small Man Big Horse

Quote from: BlodwynPig on June 10, 2019, 02:41:06 PM
I so much as touch 'it' and it chafes and becomes red raw.

It's very rude to call Pancreas "it", Blodders.

Absorb the anus burn

- cut out porn.
- cut out booze.
- cut out weed.
- find a sexual partner who smells nice and is fun to kiss.

Buelligan

[tag]Be a real man and hope it goes away[/tag]

checkoutgirl

Quote from: Absorb the anus burn on June 10, 2019, 03:12:58 PM
- cut out porn.
- cut out booze.
- cut out weed.
- find a sexual partner who smells nice and is fun to kiss.

The phrase "easier said than done" was invented for proclamations such as the above.

WesterlyWinds

Find a sexual partner who smells like milk soaked prawns strained through a week-old sock and kisses like your great aunt Jemima at a cousin's christening.

Wait, what was this thread about again?

Buelligan

Quote from: WesterlyWinds on June 10, 2019, 05:49:58 PM
Find a sexual partner who smells like milk soaked prawns strained through a week-old sock and kisses like your great aunt Jemima at a cousin's christening.

Oh god, yes, I think I went out with him too, how awful for you!

Buelligan

Quote from: WesterlyWinds on June 10, 2019, 05:49:58 PM
Find a sexual partner who smells like milk soaked prawns strained through a week-old sock and kisses like your great aunt Jemima at a cousin's christening.

Reader, I married him.

Buelligan

Quote from: WesterlyWinds on June 10, 2019, 05:49:58 PM
Find a sexual partner who smells like milk soaked prawns strained through a week-old sock and kisses like your great aunt Jemima at a cousin's christening.

You know Michael Fassbender?

grassbath

Mine's decreased significantly too, in my mid-late twenties - find it quite hard to get boners nowadays actually. Like I've wanked all my wanks and there's nothing more to imagine that will hit the spot. Booze probably has something to do with it. Fuck it all anyway, it's only a source of misery and frustration most of the time.

That's a good excuse for erectile dysfunction actually - pretend you've transcended to a higher being with no base earthly wants or desires.

bgmnts

Quote from: Absorb the anus burn on June 10, 2019, 03:12:58 PM
- cut out porn.
- cut out booze.
- cut out weed.
- find a sexual partner who smells nice and is fun to kiss.

For the record I barely drink and i've probably done weed around 4 or 5 times in my life.

Twed

Ever had a relationship with somebody who gets horny on weed? Now that's playing on hard mode.

Twed

bgmnts, I think the daily porn might be the issue here. Leave it alone for three days, and then have a go on it. Notice how you blast a hole through the ceiling. Extrapolate from that the effect it has on regular sex. And then clean up the surrounding area.

Ray Travez


jobotic


PlanktonSideburns

Yes complaining about a decreased sex drive whilst begrudgingly shagging yourself daily I feel is missing the point

hummingofevil

Not me mate. Been regularly pumping blanks into my missus for last 15 years*

*It's not me it's her**.

**Might be me***

***It's that time to go to docs to find out****

****Oh FFS.