Toothing

[Sam]

Apologies if this has been posted before, but I've not heard of this before:

(I saw this at another forum. Not sure of the original source)

A BEGINNER'S GUIDE TO TOOTHING

Updated 4th March 2004

Introduction

This tries to describe the way the 'Toothing and 'Toothers operate in Great Britain. As this covers a wide range it can only be fairly general but it tries to cover the basics of the range of places available in the UK.

Thank you to all those who have made suggestions.

What is a 'Toothing?

'Toothing is a form of anonymous sex with strangers - usually on some form of transport or enclosed area such as a conference or training seminar. 'Toothers meet by first connecting suitable equipment - such as a modern phone or palmtop computer. Users 'discover' other computers or phones in the vicinity and then send a speculative message. The usual greeting is: 'Toothing?'.

If the other party is interested, messages are exchanged until a suitable location is agreed - usually a public toilet, although there are tales of more adventurous spots such as deserted carriages or staff areas. What happens next is up to you!

Why 'Tooth?

It's fun! And exciting! And you can meet some wonderful new people and make proper friends.

How to find other 'Toothers'

Post specific technical issues in the appropriate forum. But, as a start, ensure your device - be it a phone, laptop or a PDA - is set to be 'discoverable' and enable 'new connections'.

What Happens?

This is up to you.

Safe 'Toothing'

Toothing is fun and exciting - but you need to stay safe. Be sure the place you arrange to meet is close to others. This makes it even more exciting, but potentially safer.

If you do agree to head back to someone's house, be sure you let a friend know where you are.

Always practise safe sex.

Happy 'Toothing!



UPDATED FAQ: SENDING YOUR FIRST MOBILE PHONE TOOTH


Updated 9th March 2004


1. Go to the contacts part of your phone.

2. Create a new contact - this could be under 'contacts' or phone book.

3. Set the name and details etc to whatever you want the recipient toother to see. Most toothers set theirs to be "Toothing?". You will also want to include your text number if you want to continue the conversation more easily. You may want to include the toothing blog's URL (toothing.blogspot.com) too, as then they can find this board and find you again.

4. To send a tooth message, select the contact you added from your phone book (if you entered the information as above, it'll be filed under 'Toothing?'), and then select 'Options'. Select 'Send Business Card' and then 'Via Bluetooth'.

5. Your device will now scour the area for available bluetooth devices. If you see a list - select the most exciting-sounding and hit 'send'. This process is entirely anonymous.

6. Wait for a response, and take it from there! If you have included your text number, they will be able to text you back. If you haven't, be sure you have listed your device name so they can send that back (it works equally well, although they will have to send a business card as described above. Experienced toothers will be comfortable with either method, although once contact has been established, texting is most convenient).

Do also make sure your device's visibility is set to "Shown to all" and, of course, that your Bluetooth is actually On!

Finally, Toothing with a PDA is much simpler. You should have an application called 'BlueChat' or something (aptly-named, huh?) which will enable you to connect and chat more easily.

Hope this helps.

[Des Nilsen]

That's a bit weird.

I'm sort of sceptical about the necessity of all this covert weirdness and/or lusty behaviour. True, casual sex crosses my mind, but if I really want it I'll probably be quite direct. Given the right mood and company.
People seem to need to find these veiled ways of seeking out sex because (perhaps) they're embarassed about it - there's dogging and this and all sorts of other bits and pieces.

It seems weirdly removed from simply going out and catching someone's eye, even if that's what initially happens with toothing.
Hmmm :tap tap tap: it's just uninteresting really, this toothing and dogging business. It seems good natured but over ellaborate.
Perhaps hetrosexual people should develop a proper, established (albeit still probably illegal if public) way to meet and fuck, like gay men (and I assume gay women*) can in known cruising areas.
It sort of goes on in hotel bars but that's also something of an excuse, and a sexual habit/sub-culture in itself. People seem to need a cover for what they really want.
I don't know whether this makes me sound a joyless bastard for denying people their idling around the issue or a rampant filthbeast for wanting it outright.

* - This must go on. You never hear about it though do you?
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[Cerys]

I reckon it's a conspiracy by vampires to lure their hapless victims to secluded areas.

[Cheese Arse H Christ]

I'll 'ave a bit o' that

[Cheese Arse H Christ]

http://toothing.proboards28.com/index.cgi

http://story.news.yahoo.com/news?tmpl=story&cid=573&ncid=757&e=1&u=/nm/20040419/od_nm/britain_toothing_dc

http://www.wired.com/news/culture/0,1284,62687,00.html?tw=wn_story_top5

http://www.reuters.com/locales/newsArticle.jsp;:40835e90:5a48bb34e484c86c?type=internetNews&locale=en_US&storyID=4858731

[Nearly Annually]

I think this thread by Incisor says it all ...

[hencole]

So when I was babysitting last week and told to watch out as the kid was teething, that was something different right?

[Lady Beany]

*Quickly switches off her Bluetooth option on her phone because all of the blokes in her office are munters*

[dirkfunk]

what in hellzone is apple bobbing

[Speciality meat product]

Anybody ever tried searching for people when in a crowded bar?

I've only just figured out how it works, and I might just have to give it a go tonight. Will I look a fool?

[Lady Beany]

It could be quite a laugh.  Go for it.  Let us know if you get bumraped.

I work in a office where ringtones, logos and all that shit is sent around.  Every so often I will get a random porno logo sent to my phone that was meant for someone else.

[butnut]

what in hellzone is apple bobbing

Looks pretty kinky to me.