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That thread about that nonce or whatever

Started by Barry Admin, May 04, 2022, 05:17:46 PM

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flotemysost

Quote from: Armed Traffic Warden on May 08, 2022, 04:54:16 PMTo be clear I don't mind people thinking whatever they might think but I do mind when they decide to pass down from on high their ill  thought out, self righteous bollocks. Largely consisting of 'well I can't imagine thinking of someone that age...' - then don't, fuck off. Vive la difference. It's just a way of saying i don't like what you're doing and I want you to know I'm judging you negatively on it. As before, case by case but I'd air on the side of keeping my nose out unless I had reasonable cause to suspect abuse in some form.

Thanks for sharing this and I'm sorry if my previous posts came across as judgmental, which reading back they probably do. I guess something in the old thread touched a nerve re: experiences of behaviour and attitudes from men towards younger women/teenagers in various workplaces and other environments. But it's not fair to project that discomfort in a sweeping dismissal of other personal situations, so apologies if it's come across that way.

Any road I'm quite possibly the least qualified person in the entire fucking solar system to be talking about relationships anyway so I'm going to pipe down now. I wish I'd never posted in either thread tbh, the whole subject is making me feel pretty shit.

willbo

Quote from: Replies From View on May 08, 2022, 07:16:00 PMIt is when you're of the age where you can't tell apart a 17 year old from a 13 year old, which is once you hit your 30s at the latest.

It's a nonce acting carefully within the law, and everyone can see it.

one modern term is "jail-waiting", apparently Drake is famous for it

pigamus


touchingcloth

Quote from: Lisa Jesusandmarychain on May 08, 2022, 09:30:59 AMMaybe make references to The Fast Show's Mid- Life Crisis Man instead of this self-righteous , self-satisfied shenanigans?

Nah, my date has never even heard of the Fast Show.

Zero Gravitas

Quote from: touchingcloth on May 08, 2022, 08:47:40 PMNah, my date has never even heard of the Fast Show.

So often attraction to the vibrance of youth quickly sours to a dark jealousy.

Quote from: flotemysost on May 08, 2022, 07:58:18 PMThanks for sharing this and I'm sorry if my previous posts came across as judgmental, which reading back they probably do. I guess something in the old thread touched a nerve re: experiences of behaviour and attitudes from men towards younger women/teenagers in various workplaces and other environments. But it's not fair to project that discomfort in a sweeping dismissal of other personal situations, so apologies if it's come across that way.

Any road I'm quite possibly the least qualified person in the entire fucking solar system to be talking about relationships anyway so I'm going to pipe down now. I wish I'd never posted in either thread tbh, the whole subject is making me feel pretty shit.

No absolutely. I really mean it when I say people can and should think what they want. On top of that we all have 'gut' thoughts/feelings which make our reasoned thoughts harder to define. I want to make clear that I wasn't referring to anyone in this thread with the bit about people saying things to me.
  I'm not so egotistical or narcissistic (not quite) as to take anything said here personally so we're cool. Rather I meant I've had people, after years of knowing my wife and I just pointedly say how much they couldn't do it and they're uncomfortable with it and have a problem with one of or both of us as a result. 3 times to be precise. I'm not insulted by it. I'm disappointed by their lack of imagination that what they consider, a-hem, unimaginable is none the less fine with someone else.
People who don't conform to the 'norm'? All power to them and those who love them.* Who gives a fuck? I certainly wouldn't make a point of telling them I didn't care for their choices.

Forums where people talk honestly, openly and with an eagerness to share and learn are great and I'm only too pleased for you and others to continue.**

* apart from where abuse is occurring.

** not that you need my approval of course.

bgmnts

So what would happen if you wanked to completion over a woman who looked 22 but turned out later to be a very developed 15 year old. Are you a nonce after that?

Obviously a bit jokey but i just had the horrible thought that it's possible a lot of adult entertainers could have perhaps lied about their age and there would be the subject of mass wanks whilst being underage.

But then its only the age of consent in america (is it?), and plus there isn't even any consent involved in wanking anyway so fuck knows.

flotemysost

Appreciate such a measured and thoughtful reply there @Armed Traffic Warden, and I'm sorry to hear of people who you know personally being rude about it, that's pretty shit. I'm all for people not conforming to the norm, btw - I guess it's just that some of the stuff being said earlier (re: middle-aged men dating teenage girls) comes across like it IS conforming to a certain norm and I find it all a bit depressing, but I'm gonna leave it at that.

touchingcloth

Quote from: bgmnts on May 08, 2022, 09:50:27 PMObviously a bit jokey but i just had the horrible thought that it's possible a lot of adult entertainers could have perhaps lied about their age and there would be the subject of mass wanks whilst being underage.

The mass wanks are less of a concern than the being fucked on camera, surely?

Zero Gravitas

Quote from: bgmnts on May 08, 2022, 09:50:27 PMSo what would happen if you wanked to completion over a woman who looked 22 but turned out later to be a very developed 15 year old. Are you a nonce after that?

Obviously a bit jokey but i just had the horrible thought that it's possible a lot of adult entertainers could have perhaps lied about their age and there would be the subject of mass wanks whilst being underage.

But then its only the age of consent in america (is it?), and plus there isn't even any consent involved in wanking anyway so fuck knows.

That's almost precisely the story of Traci Lords https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Traci_Lords sans the horrifically depressing context.

I recall someone here mentioning a similar case in the UK, and if old page 3s magically transmuted the owners into nonces, not sure if that was a law change or a specific individual.


willbo

Quote from: bgmnts on May 08, 2022, 09:50:27 PMSo what would happen if you wanked to completion over a woman who looked 22 but turned out later to be a very developed 15 year old. Are you a nonce after that?

I don't think what happens in someone's own mind is a big deal. Being attracted to someone doesn't hurt them if you don't take action. Pursuing an unhealthy relationship with a teen which damages her would be bad for the world but not privately thinking "wow she is pretty" and then dropping the thought and moving on. Wanking I would say may be worse as it often leads to more (looking for porn etc).

Replies From View

Quote from: touchingcloth on May 08, 2022, 10:03:58 PMThe mass wanks are less of a concern than the being-fucked-on camera, surely?

I'm sure it'll have some kind of waterproof cover over it - don't worry about that.

Porky

Mrs Wilberforce got on the bus yesterday with her unhappy looking little dog, Mrs Wilberforce tries to cheer everyone up, however it always ends with one wishing to murder her but never quite having the heart to do so. I am seventy but every time i see or hear Mrs Wilberforce I always feel much older.

willbo

Update - Went into work today. Saw a female colleague (late 20s aged) who I have a little crush on. She knows I like her company and we had lunch. She bought up the subject of the girl and nonce herself, unprompted by me. She said she had been in the building with them and felt uncomfortable at how close they were and how they sneaked off together (on a separate occasion to the one I saw). Seems I'm not the only one on the case. And this one is actually righteous.

Goldentony

yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeees YOU'RE IN THERRE WILBO LAD YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEES EVENFLOOOOOOOOOOOOOW

Elderly Sumo Prophecy

Are you absolutely sure that she's late 20's? Demand to see a birth certificate.

willbo

Quote from: Goldentony on May 20, 2022, 10:57:01 PMyeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeees YOU'RE IN THERRE WILBO LAD YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEES EVENFLOOOOOOOOOOOOOW

if I have to listen to pearl jam its over.

Butchers Blind

Everyone be fucking everyone else in willbo's work.

touchingcloth


PlanktonSideburns

#139
Quote from: pigamus on May 08, 2022, 03:28:17 PMIf you're an ugly cunt with a crap personality then how are you getting these attractive young women to go out with you?

Gives em better marks on their exams (joke)

He's not a nonce, but he is someone who has to explain aggressively on the internet that he technically isn't. A bit like homer with his not insane notice

The Mollusk

Quote from: PlanktonSideburns on May 21, 2022, 06:34:41 AMGives em better marks on their exams (joke)

He's not a nonce, but he is someone who has to explain aggressively on the internet that he technically isn't. A bit like homer with his not insane notice

Hang on

not insane

NO T I NS AN E

Fucking hell

jobotic

Quote from: Butchers Blind on May 21, 2022, 12:10:55 AMEveryone be fucking everyone else in willbo's work.

He does work in a sex factory.

Sounds to me like they've been slacking off.

The Mollusk

You don't have to be fucking teenage girls to work here... but it helps!

Ferris

I think all of my partners have been slightly older than me. I'm like an anti-nonce. What do I win?

PlanktonSideburns

Quote from: Ferris on May 21, 2022, 11:04:25 AMI think all of my partners have been slightly older than me. I'm like an anti-nonce. What do I win?
What's the opposite of a van

Smart car?


Ferris

Quote from: PlanktonSideburns on May 21, 2022, 12:24:12 PMWhat's the opposite of a van

Smart car?

I don't have a car so that's even more evidence in my favour re: not a nonce.

PlanktonSideburns

Quote from: Ferris on May 21, 2022, 12:29:34 PMI don't have a car so that's even more evidence in my favour re: not a nonce.

Your right on the threshold of tipping over from 'definitely not a nonce' to 'trying too hard to cover his tracks' maybe quickly say something about your love of anime to tip it back into the safe zone